Couples Relationship Coaching Therapy
In-person: Falmouth: Cornwall, Exeter: Devon UK | Online: Worldwide
"I am delighted to offer online coaching sessions that support couples with intimacy concerns, relationship difficulties, or a desire to rekindle connection, both in and out of the bedroom."
My sessions provide a relaxed and supportive space in which to explore satisfaction in your relationship in the broadest sense. For some couples, difficulties in their sex life create distance, frustration, or a loss of joy. For others, there is a desire for more pleasure, playfulness, or emotional closeness, but uncertainty about how to communicate this or how to reconnect physically after life-changing events such as childbirth, illness, or career changes.
My aim is to help you build a strong foundation by supporting you both to understand what you are longing for in your relationship, to accept and appreciate your differences, and to co-create more pleasure, connection, and ease in your intimate life together.
Clients often describe me as an empathetic listener and a creative thinker. My role is to create a safe, respectful container in which you can feel heard by each other, navigate differences with care, and begin building a bridge towards more fulfilling intimacy.
Sex & relationship therapy supports couples to increase intimacy, communication, desire, and pleasure. Relationships require ongoing attention and nurturing, and while this process can initially feel daunting, it can also be deeply rewarding and even enjoyable once the silence around intimacy is gently opened.
I encourage you to take the first brave step and contact me to share what is currently concerning you.
I want you to know that you have really helped us. X had 3 orgasms in one session last week for example.
Alongside my professional training and experience, I bring personal understanding from my own lived experience of long-term relationships, marriage, parenting, and divorce. This allows me to support couples with compassion, realism, and insight into the realities of enduring love.
Couples often seek therapy at a point of crisis, but I believe it does not need to be this way. I encourage all couples to make intimacy a priority, rather than leaving it until the very end of the day or placing it at the bottom of the list. Regularly revisiting desires, needs, frustrations, and pleasures creates space for ongoing growth and connection.
It is my pleasure to support couples not only in expressing sadness, grief, or disappointment, but also in finding their voice to express desire, curiosity, and excitement. Many of us were never taught how to prioritise pleasure, particularly within long-term relationships or family life. Instead, busy schedules, stress, and exhaustion take over, leaving little room for relaxed sensual exploration together.
It is my absolute pleasure to be able to offer my expertise to help couples to express not just your sadness, regret and grief but also to discover your voice to express desire or excitement and to begin to explore new and better ways of relating together, Society has unfortunately not taught us to make our sexual pleasure a priority, especially not in long term marriage or family life. Instead we are conditioned to pack our lives full of activity, resulting in inevitable stress and exhaustion, all of which are not conducive to relaxed sensual discovery together.
We thought the session we had with you was brilliant. It was lovely to have a objective and open person like yourself to listen to us, and for you to lend your knowledge of sex and energy and how we can add that into our dynamic. I have to say, that our connection and intimacy has definitely improved with all the wonderful techniques you have shown us. We can not thank you enough for the time you spent with us, and the breathing techniques you have shared. We are looking forward to exploring it more, but already have got so much from it. We are very very grateful for sharing your gifts and knowledge with us.A & S
I believe it is a profound gift to share love and life with another person, whether for a short time or a lifetime. Intimacy, quite literally meaning “in-to-me-see,” requires courage, openness, and trust. I understand the depth of this journey and offer my support, compassion, encouragement, and good humour along the way.
What happens in Relationship coaching?
I offer personalised programmes of therapeutic sex and relationship coaching for couples. Your programme is shaped around what you share with me during our initial meetings and tailored to your specific needs and goals.
From experience, I believe that committing to a series of sessions allows for meaningful and lasting change. Transformation happens through consistency, and this is often best supported through six 90-minute sessions. Following our initial discussions, I will provide a clear written proposal for you to reflect on together.
Steps into relationship intimacy coaching
Following your complimentary online chat
- Initial consultation
We begin with a 90-minute session together to explore what you would like to change and to assess how coaching may best support your relationship. - Individual introductory sessions
Following this, I may invite you to meet with me individually for one hour each. These sessions allow space to explore personal experiences that influence your relationship and are often experienced as deeply relieving and supportive.
What happens in ongoing sessions?
Sessions typically begin with a check-in on how you have been since we last met and how you found the home practices. I then outline the focus of the session and introduce any new exercises or practices with clarity and care.
Sessions combine coaching, counselling, sex education, practical techniques, and communication skills. Together we explore new ways of relating, challenge unhelpful patterns, build confidence in expressing desires and boundaries, and develop skills that support intimacy beyond our time together.
Sex and Relationship Coaching can take place entirely online, or you may choose to join me on retreat for a deeper immersive experience.
Ongoing Support
I offer email or phone support between sessions when needed and am always transparent about any communication to maintain balance and trust. I respect confidentiality while never holding secrets between partners. Honesty can feel challenging at first, and I will support you both through these moments with care and steadiness.
Following the completion of your programme, I usually suggest a follow-up session around six months later to check in and offer continued encouragement.
The session we had with Rachel was excellent. She makes you feel very relaxed and creates a beautiful environment. I was slightly apprehensive before the session not knowing what to expect but after being in Rachel's company for a couple of minutes I felt completely reassured as it is clear from the outset that Rachel is a very knowledge teacher and makes you feel so relaxed. If you are thinking of booking a session do not hesitate as our relationship has improved so much since and we cannot wait for the next session
My Coaching Approach
My approach combines spoken and experiential therapeutic practices. When appropriate, I guide you through practices together during sessions and offer clear guidance for home practice, often supported by additional learning resources..
Couples Therapy Prices
Online sessions are £100 and last 60–90 minutes.